Sexy comes from comfort
They say strong is the new sexy, and relatable to that, for me comfortable is the new sexy. I don't usually like to wear uncomfortable revealing clothes. The sexiest I feel is when I wear my outfit with confidence. That swag women have that intrigues men and even women - not in a sexual way, but in a confident way; is what I love to display. I call it comfortable confidence.
So sexy comes from being comfortable, not only with what you are wearing but with who you are. And at the end, I feel like fashion and style reflects how we feel with ourselves.
I want to clarify, wearing revealing clothes, showing too much, etc is not my style. However with that, I don't want to tag negative connotations to that type of style. Because I like it when I see it worn by other women!
I have big breast and always have, since I was very little. At first, growing up I was a little embarrassed and so wouldn't feel comfortable wearing very revealing clothing. I have been the same throughout the years. Even with the shifts of trends. I prefer to feel sexy in a different way.
I am not ashamed of my breasts, however, I never wanted them to get in the way of my interaction with people. And sometimes, when you reveal a little too much, it could send the wrong message. Or maybe it doesn't, maybe that's being very chauvinistic of me to think that way. But without being political on the subject, I know that if I want to catch the attention at a party, I will reveal more. And again, nothing wrong with that. Those are my lethal weapons! Our lethal weapons. And society made it that way, because breasts are just breasts. We just have to learn how to deal with them!
I feel sexy when I wear comfortable clothes, because for me attitude is the mother of attractiveness. And it works the same for everything in life.
In most cases, fashion is very annoying. It fits to your eye, but deep down you know it doesn't fit your body or your style. I see a lot of women, going along with fashion trends, but wearing clothes that don't fit their bodies. They might wear it because they saw it on some influencer on social media, or a friend of theirs who they consider super pretty. Sometimes, we commit the crime of copying style not because of the actual outfit, but because we want to look like them. And that sucks. I have been on that boat, and trust me, sometimes the waters get rough and you unconsciously lose your way and fall off the vessel. That is my analogy on how fashion and style can affect one's personality.
But again, we can ask ourselves, what is fashion at the end of the day? Because we wear what designers make. We go according to their tastes. They create a wide variety of styles that we end up choosing for ourselves. We see things we like, we buy them. We obviously won't buy anything that looks bad on someone, like we won't buy food that doesn't look appealing to our eye.
What I want to say is that we must wear what makes us feel the most comfortable in our own skin!
I like to be comfortable and it is when I feel the sexiest. I like to be attractive with little to show. At the end, when you are able to portray that sex-appeal in lounge clothes, the attraction is real.
I love fitted dresses. It shapes up my body just fine. I also like to mix it up with heels sometimes, but lately I really like to wear it with sneakers and either a leather or denim jacket. I feel good in them. I like the athletic looks of it and how revealing --without showing-- looks. I am proud of my body. Thats for sure, and I should be of my breast as well. But I work hard on my body to keep it that way, I dont work on my boobs! :)
How is your way to feel sexy and empowered when you dress up? Would you agree that you feel most sexy when you feel comfortable with who you are and what you wear? What does fashion mean to you? How does it shape your style? Would love to hear your thoughts on this subject!
Hola chicas! Que pensáis de la frase `Estar cómoda para sentirse sexy'?. Coincidís con esa manera de pensar?
La moda es una pesadilla. Cada año cambian las tendencias. Nos empiezan a gustar porque vemos que gente guapa o influenciadora lo lleva, y la mayoría de las veces caemos en la tentación de vernos igual que ellas y lo acabamos comprando. Pero en el fondo sabemos que no nos sienta bien o quizás, que no nos sentimos identificados con ese estilo. Yo identifico a muchas mujeres así, y pienso que los chicos también. Es la manera mas facil de perder sex-appeal.
Yo hay veces que me he dejado llevar por esas emociones, y he caido en esa tentacion. Sobretodo cuando intento comprar online. Meto muchísimas cosas que me gustan en mi cesta, pero luego caigo en cuenta de que no me queda bien o quizás no sea mi estilo, me cabreo y me salgo de la página. Pero lo mas importante es que, compres loq ue te compres, vistas como te vistas, que tu percha sea la de alguien con confianza. Eso se ve de lejos, y es lo que mas atrae.
A mi hay una tendencia que me flipa, y es la de sentirte sexy de una manera natural y atlética, por asi decirlo. Me gustan muchos los tacones, pero cada vez me gusta mas ir en tennis. Me gusta combinarlo con un vestido ajustado, de tela elástica, y añadirle un toque sexy y sofisticado. Como una chaqueta de cuero, vaquera, un buen bolso y una camisa anudada.
Para mi vestirme sexy no es ensenar ni mostrar. De hecho, si se puede vestir sin mostrar tanto y asi verse sexy y coqueta, mejor todavía. Me motiva mucho sentirme así cuando visto con ropa cómoda. Pero ojo! con eso no quiero insinuar ni denominar que el vestirse mostrona es algo malo. Eso va por gustos, y la verdad es que no es mi estilo. Porque si me gusta como le queda a otras personas cuando lo veo.
Pero para mi, la major manera de verse sexy y atraer a las personas de una manera sensual a la hora de vestirse es con la actitud. Y en el fondo, siento que eso es lo que atrae mas, incluso al sexo masculino.
Y vosotras, que pensais? Sentis que hay veces que os dejais llevar por las nuevas tendencias? Opinais que la mejor manera de llamar la atencion es llevando tu ropa con confianza? Os gusta vestir cómodas?